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Hello 2021! | My Goal Setting Process

winter work outfit | dark blue long sleeve blouse | gold navy jacquard skirt | Petite Fashion Blog Lady in Violet

fall work outfit | blue silk blouse | gold navy flared skirt | Houston Fashion Blog Lady in Violet

workwear | navy gold midi skirt | nude colored heels | Texas Fashion Blog Lady in Violet

fall work wear | dark blue keyhole top | jacquard midi skirt | Petite Fashion Blogger Lady in Violet

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c/o Long Sleeve Blue Blouse | c/o Jacquard Midi Skirt | Similar Heels | Gold Earrings | c/o Bead Bracelet

Hello 2021!! Like for many of you, 2020 was a crazy roller coaster of year filled with plenty of ups and downs.  The year started with Covid canceling my social life and finding me confined to my small one bedroom apartment, then lead to the purchase of my amazing home.  At the end of summer, I hit another low when my father unexpectedly passed away.  But, I ended the year on the high of getting engaged.  After of year of extreme highs and lows, I was excited to get away for a bit by spending the last week of 2020 in a small town in Northeast Texas visiting some of Steve’s family. I took a break from blogging, focused on being in the present moment, and came home ready to kickstart a new year.

I usually spend New Year’s Day laying out my goals for the year, setting up my blog calendar, and brainstorming new ideas and posts.  Since we were out of town, I decided to wait until my first 3-day weekend of the year.  I spent most of yesterday thinking up lots of new content ideas and starting my yearly goals.

GOAL SETTING PROCESS

I love love love setting goals! I make yearly and monthly goals which help me stay on track, stay motivated, and keep me moving forward.  My goal setting process is pretty simple.  I’m sharing it below in case you are looking to set yourself up for success this year.  I usually do this process twice – once for my personal goals and one for my blog goals.

  1. SET 3-5 ATTAINABLE YEARLY GOALS AND 1-2 BIG DREAM GOALS
    I think about what I hope to accomplish this year and set a few goals that I know with a little work and determination that I can achieve by the end of the year.  I also like to set one or two big dream goals.  These are items that I’m okay if I don’t achieve, but I want to work towards with my baby goals.
  2.  SET 3-5 ACTIONABLE GOALS EACH MONTH TO HELP REACH ATTAINABLE YEARLY GOALS
    At the start of each month, I write down a few goals for each month that I would like to focus on and that are actionable.  I make them simple, easy, and short.  I usually keep them posted somewhere visible like on the fridge, bathroom mirror or at my desk.  These goals are things that will put me on track to achieving some of my yearly goals.For example, if my yearly goal is to improve overall health, a monthly goal might be to eat 5-7 servings of fruits and vegetables every day.  The next month, my goal might be to do yoga 3 times a week.  My hope is that the goal I set month one becomes a healthy habit, and I add to it each month.  By the end of the year, I will have built 12 new healthy habits that will improve my overall health.
  3. SET1-2 ACTIONABLE GOALS EACH MONTH TO HELP REACH BIG DREAM GOALS
    I use the same idea as in step 2 with these goals being steps moving me towards those big dream goals.
  4.  REVISIT AND REVISE MONTHLY AND YEARLY GOALS AS NEEDED
    My goals for the year may change as the year progresses and life changes.  I like to keep the option open to mix things up if needed.  This doesn’t mean cancel a goal because it’s hard or not going how I want it too.  It just means I give myself the flexibility to be adaptable to the changing circumstances of life.

If you are looking to set some new goals for 2021, I hope this process will help you out! With my blog goals in mind, I’m including a quick reader survey below.  One of my goals this year is to grow and expand the topics covered on the blog.  This is where you can help me out by letting me know what you want to see more of, what you love, and other things that help me plan out my content for the year.  I really appreciate you taking the time to fill out the survey!

wedding guest outfit | high neckl blue blouse | gold navy jacquard midi skirt | Houston Fashion Blogger Lady in Violet

wedding guest outfit | high neckl blue blouse | gold navy jacquard midi skirt | Houston Fashion Blogger Lady in Violet

work attire for women | long sleeve dark blue blouse | blue gold flared skirt | Petite Fashion Blog Lady in Violet

work wear for petite women | gold jacquard midi skirt | nude colored heels | Houston Fashion Blog Lady in Violet

professional work outfit | long sleeve blue blouse | gold navy printed skirt | Texas Fashion Blog Lady in Violet

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What I Wore December

casual winter outfits | sweaters | jeans outfit | Petite Fashion Blog Lady in Violet

Happy New Year!  I thought December would be a slow month with the lack of holiday parties, but it still managed to be a little busy.  Steve and I spent the last week of 2020 out in the country visiting with some of his family.  We haven’t been able to spend much time with them since they live out of town, so it was amazing spending a full week with them.  For those looking closely at my December outfit pics, Steve and I are also engaged.  Another fun and fabulous thing that happened in December.  More details coming soon.

I filled my outfits this month with lots of jeans, sweaters, and long sleeve tops.  I also hit my 100th ride on my peloton bike. The peloton bike and app was one of my favorite purchases and finds of 2020.  I’ve enjoyed the variety of classes on the app and the flexibility of working out on my schedule.

Keep scrolling for your winter outfit inspiration and a look at what I wore in December.

winter outfit | gray star print sweater distressed jeans | Houston Fashion Blog Lady in Violet

gray star print sweater | distressed jeans | booties | lace bralette

winter outfit | yellow fitted sweater | white mules | Petite Fashion Blog Lady in Violet

yellow sweater | distressed jeans | white mules

layered casual outfit | olive green long cardigan | tan loafers | Texas Fashion Blog Lady in Violet

long cardigan | white cami | blue jeans | booties | c/o gold necklace

winter outfit | pearl button cardigan | tan loafer flats | Petite Style Blog Lady in Violet

pearl button cardigan | white cami | skinny jeans | tan loafers | bracelet | c/o necklace

date night outfit | snakeskin wrap blouse | black skinny jeans | Houston Fashion Blogger Lady in Violet

snakeskin wrap blouse | black skinny jeans | brown heels | necklace | earrings | similar purse

holiday outfit | zebra print blouse | burgundy cardigan | Texas Fashion Blogger Lady in Violet

zebra print top | black jeans | black boots

casual fashion | long sleeve black top | gold earrings | Petite Fashion Blogger Lady in Violet

black floral print top | jeans | bracelet | earrings

casual outfits | red plaid top | brown mules | Texas Fashion Blogger Lady in Violet

red plaid top | blue jeans | similar mules | necklace | bracelet

casual outfits | black long sleeve floral top | brown hiking boots | Petite Fashion Blog Lady in Violet

black floral print top | blue jeans | lace up booties | sunglasses

peloton bike | lululemon workout clothes | black gym outfit | Texas Lifestyle Blog Lady in Violet

CELEBRATING MY 100TH PELOTON RIDE!

black tank top | black leggings | sports bra | water bottle

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Petite Style Guide: Cropped Sweaters

petite style guide for cropped sweaters | petite fashion tricks and tips | texas fashion blog lady in violet

Being 5’3, I am always looking for tips and tricks to look a little bit taller.  These tricks usually involve choosing items that create the look of longer legs.  Cropped sweaters popularity grew this year, and I realized these short sweaters help with my long leg illusion.  I started adding all the cropped sweaters to my closet.

While the cropped sweater helps with the illusion, other styling tricks like high waisted jeans and showing a little ankle also help add to the illusion.  Check out the different outfits below to see my petite style guide for cropped sweaters.

winter outfits | yellow fitted cropped sweater | distressed jeans | Petite Fashion Blog Lady in Violet

yellow cropped sweater | distressed jeans | booties

This cropped yellow sweater above was a great find.  It’s fitted with stretch, so it feel super comfy.  The cut of the crop hits perfectly at the top of high waisted denim.  The higher waist of these jeans extends the look of the legs creating a long look, great for us petite gals or anyone wanting to have the legs for days look.

Quick Note on this sweater: The color is a mix between lime green and yellow leaning more towards yellow.

casual outfits | pink short sweater | light tan booties | petite fashion blogger lady in violet

pink sweater | hight waisted jeans | booties | earrings | c/o bead bracelets

If you want a slightly longer crop to go just past a waist band, this pink sweater is good option. It also a little bit more volume and cozy fit. It still a shorter sweater, can be more comfy being a bit longer, and has that same great long leg effect.

Another petite styling trick, show some ankle.  I usually feel a little taller in pics when I’m showing just a hint of ankle. A quick cuff on your jeans will do the trick.

winter outfits | lime yellow sweater | black knee high boots | texas fashion blog lady in violet

yellow sweater | high waisted jeans | black boots

If you love wearing tall boots, a shorter sweater is the perfect pairing!  A long tunic sweater and my boots can sometimes my feel stumpy and my frame overwhelmed depending on the sweater length and volume.  The shorter sweater leaves plenty of jean showing to help with the long leg illusion.

If you do a longer sweater and boot combo, I opt for a boot with a heel to give more overall height or do a front tuck of the sweater to show a bit more leg.   If you are looking for ideas for over the knee boots, check out my post here on styling OTK boots when you are on the shorter side.

fall outfits | pink short sweater | bootcut jeans for petite women | Texas fashion blogger Lady in violet

pink sweater | bootcut jeans | brown heels | earrings | c/o bead bracelets

All three previous looks showcased high waisted jeans which are perfect for the leg illusion that we are trying to achieve.  However, mid-rise jeans can work just as well.  Make sure your sweater will at least graze the top of your jeans so no skin shows in between.

I already have a few more cropped sweater coming in, so I can keep this petite styling trick working in my wardrobe all winter long.  Since most of my jeans are  mid-rise, I’m opting for more sweaters like the pink one that will work with multiple jean rises.

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What I Wore in November

fall outfit ideas | casual outfits | petite fashion blogger lady in violet

Only one more month left of 2020!  My November outfits were a mix of sweaters and lightweight fall tops.  We had a few warm days that called for tank tops and shorts.  I continue to add to my comfy loungewear collection too.  We took our Christmas card photo this month, so I’m including the brown midi dress that I wore for the picture.

Since it’s Cyber Monday, many of the items that I wore in November are on sale today!  One sale I must point out is Kendra Scott’s 30% off sale.  My staple earrings and many of my necklaces are from this line.  It’s also a great jewelry line to shop for Christmas gifts.  She has a wide array of jewelry from everyday to statement and a good range of prices.

Also worth noting as you do your sale shopping, Nordstrom does price matching! Sometimes they already mark items down as price-matched on the site.  If you find something that’s not, you can just do a chat session on their website and send them the link and they will match.  I like the perks of shopping with my Nordstrom card, so I like to take advantage of this perk.

If you are doing some gift shopping today, don’t forget to check out my GIFT GUIDES page for lots of ideas including new guides for this year and all of my past gift guides.

Now onto the Outfits!

fall outfit | pink sweater | tan loafers | petite fashion blog lady in violet

pink sweater | skinny jeans | loafers | c/o crossbody bag

warm fall outfit | cow print top | black cutoff jean shorts | houston fashion blogger lady in violet

cow print blouse | jean shorts | brown belt | similar booties | c/o brown purse | c/o necklace | earrings

winter outfit | ivory sweater | distressed jeans | texas fashion blogger lady in violet

c/o ivory sweater | distressed jeans | booties | tote bag  | earrings

work outfit | brown floral midi dress | brown belt | american fashion blog lady in violet

midi dress |tan heels | brown belt | stone bangles | earrings

fall outfit | pink fitted dress with long green cardigan | brown knee high boots | petite fashion blogger lady in violet

tank dress (color sold out) | olive green cardigan | similar boots | similar necklace

casual outfits | black long sleeve blouse | light blue skinny jeans | popular us fashion blog lady in violet

black top | light wash jeans | similar brown mules | silver necklace | cuff bracelet

winter fashion | white fleece pullover | abercrombie women | casual fashion blog lady in violet

fleece pullover | jeans

fall outfit | brown oversized cardigan | spanx faux leather leggings | petite fashion blog lady in violet

c/o cardigan | fitted white tank | faux leather leggings | boots | similar headband | c/o necklace

casual outfit | long sleeve gray tee | ripped blue jeans | houston fashion blogger karen kocich

long sleeve gray tee | distressed jeans | loafers | layered silver necklace

comfy loungewear | gray striped tee | black leggings | Southern style blog lady in violet

c/o striped tee | black leggings
bedroom details: duvet cover | navy sheets | white throw pillows

cozy loungewear | black fitted tank top | purple jogger pants | texas fashion blog lady in violet

black tank top | purple jogger pants | silver necklace
living room details: white/gray rug | white end table | coasters

comfy loungewear clothes | long sleeve black tshirt | black leggings | popular texas fashion blog lady in violet

black long sleeve tee | black leggings | slippers from Fuzzy Baba (old) | coffee mug

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