Monthly Archives: April 2017

Chic Spring Outfit + Striped One Shoulder Top

Houston fashion blogger wears a chic Spring outfit idea including a one shoulder top with white jeans.

Lady in Violet, a Houston based style blogger, wears a navy striped one shoulder top with white jeans for a weekend outfit idea for Spring.

Style Blogger Lady in Violet shares what to pair with white jeans for spring.

Houston fashion blogger wears a navy and white outfit for summer outdoor party.

Personal style blogger Lady in Violet styles spring trends including a ruffle one shoulder top with white skinny jeans.

Lady in Violet, a Houston fashion blogger, wears a dressy casual weekend outfit idea including a one shoulder top with jeans.

Houston style blogger wears a cute outfit idea for outdoor party with white jeans.

White jeans that are not see through paired with the Stecy sandals and Gigi New York clutch.

Houston fashion blogger wears chic spring outfit idea including a one shoulder top with white jeans.

Houston fashion blogger styles dressed up casual outfits for spring.

Happy Friday!  This week kind of flew by for me, and I am not complaining.  I am very ready for Easter this weekend and a little family time.  Ok and my grandma’s desserts too. 😉  Do ya’ll have any big plans this weekend?

Spring in Texas is some of our best weather.  It’s warm with a breeze, sunny, and not too hot yet.  Most weekends are spent outdoors, so I wanted to share a chic Spring outfit idea that could be worn to an outdoor affair.  I think it would be cute to wear to Easter lunch or an evening wine night with your girlfriends, maybe on a patio with twinkle lights. Navy and white is such a classic and chic color combo, and one I love wearing.  The stripes on this one give it a sophisticated feel, but it stays chic and trendy with the one shoulder ruffle detail.

These Stecy sandals are a popular shoe for warmer months.  They pair perfectly with both pants and dresses.   I love the barely their look and the nude shoe illusion of longer legs.  They perfectly dress up any outfit.  Before I bought these, I always worried they would be uncomfortable and my foot wouldn’t be supported enough.  But I wore them so much last season including to my cousin’s wedding, and I didn’t have any big issues.

I wanted to close out today’s post to share about a slight shift in my posting schedule that will take place for a few weeks.  I have been putting off doing some behind the scenes maintenance on my blog, mostly because it’s time consuming and not as fun a creating new posts.  BUT I really do want be able to cross it off my to do list.  So for a few weeks, I’m only going to be sharing posts twice a week on Tuesdays and Fridays.  I’m hoping this will free up some time to work on all my behind the scenes fun without having to completely give up my social life. 🙂  Hopefully all the fingers crossed it will not take me too long, and I will be back to my regular posting schedule soon!

So I will see you Tuesday with another fabulous Spring look.  Ya’ll enjoy this wonderful Easter weekend!


Striped Spring Jacket

Houston fashion blogger styles a striped spring jacket with a white tank top and skinny jeans.

Luxington Boutique striped jacket outfit worn by Houston Fashion Blogger Lady in Violet.

Cute weekend outfit with heels and lightweight jacket for spring.

Karen Rock, a Houston based blogger, shares what to wear to brunch including skinny jeans and a striped jacket.

Spring Outfit idea including striped spring jacket, dark skinny jeans, and a cute tassel clutch bag.

Houston fashion blogger Lady in Violet shares how to wear jackets in spring season.

Lady in Violet, a Houston based blogger styles a chic weekend outfit idea with heels, a lightweight jacket, tank top, and jeans.

Houston fashion blogger styles a casual chic outfit idea for spring with jeans and a jacket.

Houston fashion blogger wears Luxington Boutique jacket for spring outfit inspiration.

c/o Luxington Boutique Striped Jacket  |  c/o Luxington Boutique White Tank (similar)  |  Similar Skinny Jeans  |  Nude Heels  |  c/o Sonata Bag  |  Coin Pendant Necklace  |  Tima Stud Earrings  |  Cuff Bracelet  |  Silver Bangle  |  Pave Bangle  |  Silver Mirrored Aviators  |  Nails: Essie Minimalistic

Happy Wednesday friends!  A few weeks ago, I went to check out one of Houston’s newest boutiques, Luxington Boutique in BLVD Place.  Ya’ll this store was amazing and gorgeous!  The owner has done such an amazing job of curating the pieces in this boutique.  Everything just flows together beautifully.  You can find what to wear to work, brunch, or date night all in one place. One of my favorite things I noticed was how so many of the pieces could be mixed and matched with each other.  I love that you can go in buy a few pieces, and you will be leaving ready to mix and match into several outfits.  If you are in Houston, I would definitely give this boutique a walk through, and on the first Wednesday of the month they host “happy hour” with champagne and more important 20% off everything!

This striped spring jacket is the perfect work and weekend piece.  For work, you can pair it with a fitted v-neck dress in navy or a soft pink.  You could also play with your patterns and mix it with a pretty floral print like this dress.  But come weekend brunch, I love styling it with a basic white tank and heels for a comfy chic look.

The jacket has a raw fringed hem to give a little edge, but it still has a loose structure of a blazer for the professional side of things.   It’s one of those pieces that so effortlessly takes a plain white tee and elevates it to that next level.  For spring, I’m always rolling up my jacket sleeves to accommodate the warmer weather, so I love the different print on the inside of the sleeves.  Plus, let’s not forget to mention the cute back pleat detail.  (insert heart eye emoji here)  Definitely a beautiful closet addition!

I hope ya’ll are having a great week so far.  Thanks for taking some time to stop by today!


30 Days Later | My Whole30 Review

30 Days Later: My Whole30 Review by Houston blogger

No Sugar, No Dairy, No Wine, No Beans, No Bread for 30 Days.  Sounds scary at first, but 30 days later, I realized it wasn’t so bad.  Last week, I completed my first ever Whole30 and wanted to share my results and thoughts on the whole thing.  This is a long post, so grab your coffee for this one.


The biggest physical change was that I lost 5 pounds during the past 30 days.  I noticed my waist and arms are smaller, and my jeans are fitting a little bit better.  I did experience bloating from about day 7-10, and after that was when I started noticing small body changes.  One thing I noticed after about a week was that high cellulite areas (aka back of the legs) was noticeably improved!  I felt like I would randomly notice little changes too.  Like I went to put my hand on my hip, and my little love handle was gone.

My skin has been all over the place.  In the beginning, I started getting small breakouts which went away after a few days.  I was then left with glowing skin for about a week, followed by more breakouts and a little bit of red splotchiness.   I haven’t made any changes to my skincare routine, and I did notice fine lines seemed to improve a bit during the month.    Other than that one week, I would say my skin wasn’t greatly improved by the end of the month.


Ya’ll my sweet tooth dessert cravings really did go away.  I haven’t had a craving for a sugary dessert since I ended the program.  I mean I have girl scout cookies in my cupboard and have yet to desire one.  This is HUGE for me, as reducing sugar cravings was a main goal for me.

Overall, I really feel my desire to snack all day has diminished.  In the beginning, I would see food and want to eat it.  I don’t have that as much or feel like I’m forcing myself to stay away from the yummy chips.  My eyes see them, and my mind isn’t instantly going to I have to have that now mode.  Over the weekend, we received free popcorn at our movie.  Normally I probably would have finished the bag just because it was there.  I ate a couple bites to try it, but never touched it again.  I think it’s a combination of not craving junk type food as much and learning to listen to what my body/mind needs vs wants.

The first half left me tired and often feeling off and unable to focus on what I should be doing.  By the end, I was finishing to do lists and then some.  My Fitbit tracks sleep and tells you how restless you are during the night based on your arm movement.  I noticed throughout the program that I became less restless in the middle of the night.  I slept more in the beginning often snoozing until I had to get up.  Currently though, I am waking up with or just before my alarm goes off and ready to hit the gym.

I have more energy throughout the day especially at night.  I can be kind of lazy at night after work, so I make daily to do lists that help ensure I do some productive things each night.  Last week, I had a day where I did the full list and was like what else can I do.  Prior to the program, not the case at all.  The list was more like a hope to do list with usually only a couple things actually getting done.  I also have more focus and concentration.  Although, I think some of this comes from having the energy to tackle so many to do list items.  I’m not thinking about the 101 things I need to do, and I can really tune into the task at hand.


After your 30 days end, they advise that you don’t go on an all day eat all the things bender, but rather slowly re-introduce off plan foods and see how your body responds..  They give 2 suggestions a fast and slow reintroduction period.  I chose to do slow because I felt it worked more with my plan to continue eating close to whole30 without being as strict.  I will be gradually trying off plan foods as the opportunity arises verse creating the opportunity in the fast pace plan.

My personal opinion is that Whole30 is not something you do for a month and then go right back to your old eating habits.  The program should help you change your eating habits into healthier ones that teach you what your body needs verse wants.


No surprise here, I already had a glass of wine.  The first night I could I enjoyed a chilled glass of Chardonnay, the next morning I felt like I drank an entire bottle.  A friend warned me that the first glass was brutal and to enjoy it at home because it hits you quick.  I have had wine since then and no bad post-day headaches.

Meal planning and not having to think each night what am I going to eat (which would often lead to dinners of girl scout cookies and wine) was a game changer for me.  I plan to continue meal planning most of my meals and prepping as much as I can on weekends.  It’s really nice to come home from a long work day, look at my menu, and now exactly what healthy dinner option I have to eat.

My food reintroduction is to add in foods as they happen but not too many at one time.  I’m trying to only add in one item per meal at most two.  Saturday at the movies, I had turkey sliders which was bread and cheese.  After I reintro a new food, I try and determine if I had any side effects like being tired, bloated, upset stomach.  I plan on doing this gradually over the next couple weeks.

I haven’t had a big sugar craving yet, but I also told myself I didn’t want to eat any sugary desserts for my first post whole 30 week.  When you have been eating with such restriction, it’s kind of scary to realize you can now eat whatever you want.  You feel great and have all this energy and you fear one bite of something bad and it all goes away.  Since sugar is my biggest vice, I want to get comfortable with adding in other foods and finding a new food rhythm first.

My first sugary sweet will probably come Easter Sunday, because I can never say no to one of my Grandma’s desserts.  I’m hoping to keep desserts as something reserved for special occasions and extra special treats vs a daily treat.  One thing they talk about in the book is savoring and enjoying these special occasion foods you don’t plan to eat often.  You can enjoy the moment, the taste, the experience, and hopefully this will help you not eat all of the sweet desserts on the table and not re-awaken my “sugar dragon” and sugar cravings.


1 | SUGAR IS IN EVERYTHING! – When you start reading labels, you start to see that some form of sugar is in so many things!  I ended up having to make my own broth, because I had a hard time finding one without sugar.  All I could think was why does vegetable broth need sugar!?!?  Same thing for bacon, I only found ONE that did not have added sugar.

2 |  BREAKFAST REALLY IS AN IMPORTANT MEAL – Ya’ll know I’m not a breakfast person, and I still don’t wake up hungry. BUT eating breakfast first thing in the morning did keep me full until lunch.   I personally feel eating breakfast early helped kick my all day grazing habit by keeping my full and satisfied until lunch.  One of the books I read talked about how breakfast can also keep you from overindulging at night, something I was 100% guilty of pre-whole30, and something I never even have cravings to do anymore.

3 |  YOU CAN LOSE WEIGHT WITHOUT COUNTING CALORIES  – While I didn’t set out to specifically lose weight, I wasn’t going to complain if I did either.  I’ve been at the same weight for close to a year.  The only way I found to drop weight was to count calories and stay in my “goal range” which I hate doing.  On Whole30,  I never counted calories or worried if I was eating too much.  I just ate until I felt satisfied.  Some meals seemed huge to me, and I still lost weight.

4 |  EATING OUT IS HARD – I only ate out once on my Whole30, and I only had a fruit cup.  Nothing on the menu was part of the program.  I asked if I could just order a side salad with just some veggies only (this wasn’t on the menu), and I was told I could only order the menu salad which was lettuce covered in all non-whole30 things, so basically I could eat just some really expensive lettuce.  To stay on program, you have to ask so many questions about how things are cooked.  I found it easier to stay home where I could control everything.

5 |  YOU CAN DO IT! – Some days suck, some days you just want a bag of chips or cupcake or glass of wine, some days it feels like you have FOREVER left.  Other days you realize you aren’t craving things anymore, your jeans fit better, and for the first time in a LONG time you completed your super long weekend to do list.  Then day 31 happens and you realize you did it.

My bestie asked me yesterday, if I would do it again.  Take me back to February when I had never done this before, I would 110% do this again.  The changes I have noticed make it worth it and make me want to continue eating healthy majority of the time.  BUT I don’t know if now that I have completed it, I would do a full Whole30 again.  I very strategically planned a time when restricted eating would work with my schedule, but I did miss out on things like the rodeo and a few happy hours because I didn’t want to be around the temptations.  I do see myself doing mini programs though, like 7-14 days of on-plan eating after the holidays and vacations or when I find myself craving all the sweet things again.

At the beginning of 2016, I started on a quest to eat more vegetables and less processed food.  I struggled to find a way to eat that still allowed me to enjoy comfort and sentimental foods on occasion, feel satisfied and not hungry all the time, and feel healthy.  Whole30 helped find a way to eat that allows me to incorporate healthy real food into my diet, feel satisfied and love the healthy foods I am eating, but still indulge in the comfort foods that feed the soul so to speak from time to time.  I’m really happy I put my pre-conceived opinions aside, learned more and tried out this program, because it really did change the way I eat and feel towards food.

Thanks for sticking with me throughout this LONG post!  If you have any questions about anything I didn’t mention, feel free to shoot me an email!  You can also read my first 2 posts about the program here:
And So It Begins: Whole 30 Day 1
Whole 30 Halfway Mark: What I’ve Been Eating and Feeling


My personal experience on the Whole30 program and look at what I thought about the program and my results.

Floral Bell Sleeve Off the Shoulder Top

Houston fashion blogger wears a spring outfit idea including a bell sleeve off the shoulder top with gray jeans.

Lady in Violet of Houston wears the Nordstrom Chelsea28 bell sleeve off the shoulder top with a Julie Vos necklace.

Houston fashion blogger styles spring outfit ideas including off the shoulder top with gray jeans.

Lady in Violet, a Houston based blogger shares a weekend outfit idea including an off the shoulder top with gray skinny jeans and the Stecy Sandals.

Houston fashion blogger Lady in Violet carries the Rebecca Minkoff vanity saddle bag and wears gray skinny jeans and Steve madden Stecy sandals.

Lady in Violet, a Houston based fashion blogger wears a Nordstrom floral bell sleeve off the shoulder top with gray jeans.

Personal style blogger shares what to wear with off the shoulder tops for Spring fashion.

Houston based fashion blogger styles spring fashion trends including a bell sleeves off the shoulder top.

Houston fashion blogger wears spring trends including floral bell sleeve off the shoulder top with gray jeans and sandals.

Happy Friday lovelies!  I am so excited for this weekend because I am finally going to see the Beauty and the Beast movie tomorrow!  It’s high on my list of favorite Disney movies, plus I’m a big Emma Watson fan.  We thought it would be fun to go see it at the fancy (and a little pricey) iPic theater.  After looking over the amazing menu, we decided to wait until my whole 30 was over to go see it.  I mean if we are going to spend this much to go see a movie, I want to enjoy every perk including the option to order anything off the menu.  Ahh I’m so excited, I can’t wait!

Right now it’s pretty obvious that I am obsessed with all the spring trends, and this top contains THREE trends in one.  Let’s start with the best part, these high low bell sleeves.  The high low gives them such a fun and different look, and I think it’s a fresh take on the trend, at least a version I haven’t seen yet.

This structure of this top makes it a comfy off the shoulder fit.  It’s tightly cut under the arms which helps prevents it from popping up too much.  I also like that only the back is banded not the front.  It helps hold it in place but isn’t super tight.

Then there is the beautiful floral print.  I love navy florals.  They pair so well with white jeans in spring and summer, but the colors in this one also make it pair perfectly with gray or black jeans too.

I hope ya’ll have a wonderful weekend, and I will see you back here Monday for my final review of my Whole30 experience!